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Lisbonlegend Posted on 11/4 8:17
Why women are changing....

What do women want from a man? In the past, surveys have overwhelmingly shown that women want a rich man, and men want a good-looking woman. While not much has changed for men, as women's financial independence has increased, it seems that their preferences have changed.

Fhionna Moore and colleagues at the University of St Andrews, UK, analysed questionnaires from 1851 heterosexual women between the ages of 18 and 40. They found that as a woman's level of "resource control" increases - in other words as they become more financially independent - so does their preference for physical attractiveness in potential partners.

Women who had low levels of control over their cash rated the financial status of a man over his looks. Those with a decent source of income rated physical attractiveness more highly. The study will appear in Evolution and Human Behavior.

Economic constraints on women are not as strong as they were 50 years ago, Moore says. "It is this change in comparison to historical constraints that I believe influences mate preferences."

Questionnaires are one thing, but what do women do in real life? Moore says that a study she is working on suggests that the same relationship exists between a woman's resource control and the characteristics that attracted her to her current partner.

We recommend that men who aren't already there get down to the gym, and moisturise.

sasboro Posted on 11/4 9:27
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have you got problems at home already

Lisbonlegend Posted on 11/4 9:29
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Yeah, a beer belly and not enough money!

sasboro Posted on 11/4 9:36
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all these european trip dont help

RaRaRasputin Posted on 11/4 9:42
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Stick to subjects you are more qualified to talk about, lisb, such as poo.
Good morning.

Lisbonlegend Posted on 11/4 9:44
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Nah, haven't really got a beer belly but I am skint.

You talk a lot of poo yourself Rara.

sasboro Posted on 11/4 9:50
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is she after board and lodge money?

Lisbonlegend Posted on 11/4 9:53
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Yeah, I have to pay my way but that's not a problem. It's the travelling around the world that's cooked my bacon.

sasboro Posted on 11/4 9:54
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you've got a well paid job now so you should be able to pay of your debts easily

Lisbonlegend Posted on 11/4 9:57
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That's the plan, gym 5 days a week to avoid spending money and then home to bed. I'm going on a helicopter flight when I get back from Bucharest.

sasboro Posted on 11/4 9:57
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around slough?

boroboy75 Posted on 11/4 9:58
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So you've moved in with your ex-bird?
It must be a nightmare laying in the next room listening to her getting rattled by her work-mate.

Lisbonlegend Posted on 11/4 10:00
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She's my current bird and the ex work mate got married at the weekend and is on his honeymoon.

No sas, in Nottingham.

sasboro Posted on 11/4 10:02
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thought you were going to say something like new york, whats there to see from the air in nottingham?

Lisbonlegend Posted on 11/4 10:05
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The River Trent and lots of shootings.

sasboro Posted on 11/4 10:12
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are you taking your ex for a dirty weekend away to nottingham?

Lisbonlegend Posted on 11/4 10:33
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I might take her into the woods as she's sure of a big surprise.

sasboro Posted on 11/4 10:34
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alton towers last week..nottingham this weekend..sounds like she has you jumping through hoops already

MsCurly Posted on 11/4 10:37
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It must be really dreary to be with a man purely for his dosh.

Men are playthings and ought to be treated with such frivolity, they ought to be adored and fussed over, and then put down.

In the 'final' sense of the phrase.

janplanner Posted on 11/4 10:39
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seems to me only logical that women should be attracted to men by their attractiveness.

Lisbonlegend Posted on 11/4 10:43
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The helicopter flight was booked last year. Alton Towers was cracking....I had to go incognito though cos grantus was stalking me.

Curlers -

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zaphod Posted on 11/4 10:53
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I suspect that people are not honest with surveys about such things and "edit" their responses to give the socially acceptable reply.

Add to that the fact that what you want from a man/woman in theory is often totally different from what you actually like in practice and you have to conclude that the surveys are useless.

Jolival_LHD Posted on 11/4 10:58
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With women, there are 3 things they "want":

1) what they say they want
2) what they admit they want
3) what they really want

bandito Posted on 11/4 11:01
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Lisbon, it seems you are eating from her hand.. is she feeding you trill?

MsCurly Posted on 11/4 11:02
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That's just silly, jolival.

If a girl doesn't say what she wants then she doesn't deserve to have it.

Especially in the bedroom.

Lisbonlegend Posted on 11/4 11:06
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A pink quilt cover and lots of cushions?

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MsCurly Posted on 11/4 11:07
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Don't be ridiculous, Lisbers.

MsCurly Posted on 11/4 11:07
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Change of heart, it's a family show.

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janplanner Posted on 11/4 11:08
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i think the difference is that men are simple creatures, so their 'wants' are very simple also.

women are by nature so much more complex and evolved, that men could never hope to understand what we want, even if you borrowed the_lizards_jumpers megaphone and screamed it down their ear.

MsCurly Posted on 11/4 11:09
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My wants are relatively simple too.

Lisbonlegend Posted on 11/4 11:11
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You mean men are straightforward and say it as it is whereas women change their minds half a dozen times a second and then forget what it is they where talking about in the first place?

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bandito Posted on 11/4 11:12
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Blokes are hassle free, it's only the ones that are too in touch with their feminien sides that get walked all over. Most blokes i know want a simple life, no chew, just a normal settled life, where they are able to compromise and do what they want, when they want. Thats the way i work anyway. These hen pecked types will have breakdowns when they reach 40

Lisbonlegend Posted on 11/4 11:19
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Eating from her hand Bandy? How so?

sasboro Posted on 11/4 11:22
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are you taking her the match on monday?

bandito Posted on 11/4 11:24
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Going back to an ex bird?

You only have to look at Pally when he returned to Boro!

Lisbonlegend Posted on 11/4 11:25
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No and I'm not taking her to Portsmouth on the Saturday either or Romania in the UEFA cup.

Lisbonlegend Posted on 11/4 11:25
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She was never an ex bird, she's always been a bird.

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Badger_ Posted on 11/4 11:29
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Do you think if I post an add saying:-

"little fat bustard with bald head and glasses wishes
to meet absalute stunner to share massive lottery win."

I will atract the the wrong sort of woman.

Personally I think I would get a shythouse full of replies.

Lisbonlegend Posted on 11/4 11:29
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Don't put ideas in captain5's head.

sasboro Posted on 11/4 11:31
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cant beleive you are back with this lass who left you in the lurch when she let you go to australia on your own. I thought you were going over there to emigrate?

Lisbonlegend Posted on 11/4 11:32
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It's a long story....Oh I can feel a turtles head popping out.

MsCurly Posted on 11/4 11:36
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Love is a funny thing, sas.

One thing I do firmly believe is that you're supposed to be happy, if you're not then it's time for a rethink.

boroboy75 Posted on 11/4 11:36
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Did you class this imaginary bird, as still being your bird, when you were on here bragging about your seedy exploits in the Portuguese capital.

Lisbonlegend Posted on 11/4 11:38
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What Portuguese exploits?

Lisbonlegend Posted on 11/4 11:41
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Agreed Curlers.

sasboro Posted on 11/4 11:58
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hope it works out and you invite us all to your wedding, i just hope you arnt looking back in 12 months thinking you've wasted a year or 2 of your life

Lisbonlegend Posted on 11/4 12:01
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I could hardly be accused of wasting my life.....The plan is to clear the debt, redefine my job title and go back to Oz. You didn't turn up to my 30th birthday party so why would I invite you to my wedding?

Lisbonlegend Posted on 11/4 12:03
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Besides weddings and babies are for people who are under the thumb, eh Bandy.

janplanner Posted on 11/4 12:04
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it's not wasted though, is it? you still got all the good memories, and the things you've learnt about yourself, and about others etc. there's almost always good stuff to be got out of relationships, even if they don't work out how you hoped.

it's better to have loved and lost, than never to have loved at all.

MsCurly Posted on 11/4 12:07
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Bang on the nose that, planner.

It's called life, we live it and it invariably changes from time to time.

bandito Posted on 11/4 12:08
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seems like you are getting a bit touchy lisbon. Have I hot a nerve. You can be happily married and have a baby and have a great life. it's all about compromise. For some it comes natural, for others it doesnt.

John_Gittens Posted on 11/4 12:08
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gimme my money. gimme my money. gimme gimme my money. my money. gimme mygimme my money. money. gimme my money. gimme my money.

boroboy75 Posted on 11/4 12:09
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'it's better to have loved and lost, than never to have loved at all.'

A tired old cliche, trotted out by lonely people who can't get over being dumped.

janplanner Posted on 11/4 12:12
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i fear the austere, doom-mongering, miserablist sas is back. that didn't last long!

bandito Posted on 11/4 12:13
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you pair should get it on and stop all this cyber flirting!

janplanner Posted on 11/4 12:16
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bb75 and i? i think not.

bandito Posted on 11/4 12:17
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I meant sas!

sasboro Posted on 11/4 12:31
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lisbon, i was only joking about the wedding invite

Lisbonlegend Posted on 11/4 13:40
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As if Bandy, it was tongue in cheek my good fellow.

I'll give you your money in Bucharest Gittens.

I know you were sas, so was I. Cept for the bit about you not turning up to my 30th birthday, where were you?

zaphod Posted on 11/4 13:51
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I like women. Much more interesting than men.

Lisbonlegend Posted on 11/4 13:57
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I like women too, naked ones, laid on my bed.

sasboro Posted on 11/4 13:59
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when and where was yopur 30th party?
ANyway you never came out for mine!

grantus Posted on 11/4 14:02
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So Lisbon, is this tart of yours aware of that bit of brass you were hanging out the back of in Lisbon?

piggy_nichol Posted on 11/4 14:03
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Dont normal people politely decline to do these questionaires?

And if you are forced somehow to fill one in doesnt everyone lie as a matter of course?

I love starting sentences with And. We were never allowed to at school.

Lisbonlegend Posted on 11/4 14:06
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Sas - Yarm in March. You didn't tell me when yours was.

Of course she does grantus, it's the same woman you fool.

sasboro Posted on 11/4 14:08
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mine was in march aswell

Lisbonlegend Posted on 11/4 14:08
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Course it was.

grantus Posted on 11/4 14:12
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Your bird is a hooker? Hmmm, it makes sense, you seem the type.

boroboy75 Posted on 11/4 14:12
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sas, in 1998?

sasboro Posted on 11/4 14:14
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no, but i was born in the 70's.

jax_1 Posted on 11/4 14:18
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Hiya L.L.


Simple answer is we are not changing, it's just easier now than it used to be to leave a relationship that doesn't make you happy. In the olden days, once you were married, you were stuck with the idiot you'd got, now, if he turns into a useless div once you've got him over the threshhold, then you can show him the door. The stigma of divorce is no longer a problem, nor is the stigma of being a single parent, so we can choose who we want with the confidence of knowing it doesn't have to last for ever if he's not the one you really want.

jimmytk Posted on 11/4 14:19
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Zaphod, you are right people sometimes do lie in surveys, but most don't as the surveys are annonymous. Normally you would get people to complete a survey for social desirability and it is then quite obvious which people are lying and you can exclude them from analysis. The traditional Resource Exchange Theory of mate selection argues that men seek physically attractive mates that look to have good child bearing potential to maximise the probability that they will have healthy offspring (apparantly men favour a woman with a 0.8 waist to hip ratio), whilst women look for men that are resource wealthy to support them over the medium-long term as they have to invest more time in raising children. It makes sense that a wealthy women would not value the wealth of a partner as much as a less well off woman.

FW_2 Posted on 11/4 14:23
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"we can choose who we want with the confidence of knowing it doesn't have to last for ever if he's not the one you really want"

Flipping heck. No wonder marriage is on the decline.

bandito Posted on 11/4 14:26
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Jax, you sould like a bitter old gold digger in need of a cheap seeing too regularly

Lisbonlegend Posted on 11/4 14:33
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No grantus, I rescued her from the evil pimp boroboy75 and prevented a life of misery for her. She is no longer a hooker....

Hiya Jax, controversial. You struggling to afford the internet connection nowadays or just hiding in the shadows.

sasboro Posted on 11/4 14:34
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back to the main topic..women are more independent these days and lots of them have careers. The world is changing as people move around a lot more and keep intouch with people who have moved away or live all over the place. Things like internet means the world appears so much smaller. genreally people are settling down and getting married a lot older than 30 years ago

jax_1 Posted on 11/4 14:35
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Bandi! No not at all, I couldn't care less if they have money, love every time for me.
I was just thinking back to stuff my old gran would say. She used to say had she been in a position to do so, she would have left my grandad many a time but circs being what they were in those days, you couldn't just do that.
There was no welfare state to speak of and the council weren't there ready to hand over the keys to a property. You were stuck with whatever you'd got in the lucky bag.

Now if things don't work out you can move on.

FW2. Are you saying that if a women is the victim of domestic violence, that she should have to endure that situation with no way out?

sunset_over_ici Posted on 11/4 14:38
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Quite obviously she isn't. That's why she didn't write it anywhere.

grantus Posted on 11/4 14:38
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Aye, I thought you were the type to go all gooey eyed over a hooker. Good for you though mate, good for you.

FW_2 Posted on 11/4 14:41
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Don't be ridiculous. I'm just flabbergasted at your attitude. What is the point of getting married if you're considering divorce as an option before you've even signed the register?

BobUpndown Posted on 11/4 14:43
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7 in 10 women are fine with the way they look.. but if you want a headline then you'd say:

Almost a third of women worry about the way their body looks "every waking minute", a survey has found.
The poll of over 5,000 women for Grazia magazine found just one in 50 was happy with the way her body looks, with women wanting to lose an average of 19lbs.

Seven out of 10 women said life would improve if they had "better" bodies.

Link: 19lbs

RaRaRasputin Posted on 11/4 14:47
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"Things like internet means the world appears so much smaller. genreally people are settling down and getting married a lot older than 30 years ago"
A mid 30s bachelor would say that.

jax_1 Posted on 11/4 14:47
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"Don't be ridiculous. I'm just flabbergasted at your attitude. What is the point of getting married if you're considering divorce as an option before you've even signed the register?"


I never said I did that, I just simply stated that women now have no need to be stuck in a relationship if they are unhappy.
You never truly know what anyone is like til you live in 4 walls with them and if you have found yourself in a marriage where you are not compatible, then you don't have to stay, as you would have done 50 or 60 years ago.

Lisbonlegend Posted on 11/4 14:47
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Well I had to get my moneys worth grantus.

sasboro Posted on 11/4 14:48
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RaRaRasputin, exactly the world is your oyster,why the rush to settle down. did you settle down young or something?maybe its been my choice to not settle down a lot younger

jax_1 Posted on 11/4 14:49
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L.L., was just having a quiet spell I think

Lisbonlegend Posted on 11/4 14:52
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Well it's good to see you back. On a scale of 1 to 10 how are you doing?

boroboy75 Posted on 11/4 14:53
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"maybe its been my choice to not settle down a lot younger"

Or maybe women don't find you particularly appealing

grantus Posted on 11/4 14:54
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Is she the type of hooker ala True Romance, only done one date, escort girl? Or more of your Lylo Lil, hooker with a heart of gold and gold sovereigns?

I would have thought 15 minutes was enough moneys worth for that 20.

jax_1 Posted on 11/4 14:54
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Thanks L.L. Really good at the mo I think, I must finish that e-mail and tell you the latest but I'd say I was back up to about an 8 now, in terms of being the old jax so getting there i am pleased to say.

bandito Posted on 11/4 14:55
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jax, say you were married and your fella got bored and decided he wanted to park his sausage in another female space, would you object or would you just say, fine, lets move on, there's plenty more meat for me?

janplanner Posted on 11/4 14:55
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i hope that these days girls a being brought up to realise that they have a lot more choices for what they do with their lives and that includes careers as well as men.

my mother only had the choice of being a nurse or a teacher. and then she was supposed to give up work, get married and have children by the time she was 25. it's still an option, but it's not the only choice anymore and a good thing too.

Lisbonlegend Posted on 11/4 14:57
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I won't hold my breath on that email Jax.

More of a Julia Roberts type in Pretty Woman grantus.....

sasboro Posted on 11/4 14:57
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"Or maybe women don't find you particularly appealing"

I think you are right, if only someone had told me that when i was 20 and i would have a couple of kids and be married by now!

How long you been married bb75? bet you were one of these who got your girlfriend pregnant at 17 and got married a year later, cos you had nowt better to do

RaRaRasputin Posted on 11/4 14:58
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I didnt settle down young, but Im not desperate any more, so I can gloat!

jax_1 Posted on 11/4 14:59
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Strange question Bandi but he'd have been out the door with his cases following him.
Whether I'd have seen it from the point of view of it meaning more meat for me is another matter. I just wouldn't put up with that.

That's it exactly Jan, for those that are happy to live in that situation, all well and good but for some it's not enough.

--- Post edited by jax_1 on 11/4 15:00 ---

sasboro Posted on 11/4 14:59
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"I didnt settle down young, but Im not desperate any more, so I can gloat!"

The poor girl, how did you trap her

MsCurly Posted on 11/4 15:00
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I think Sas is very handsome actually.

boroboy75 Posted on 11/4 15:00
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sas, some people throw themselves into their career to compensate for their lack of social life.

jax_1 Posted on 11/4 15:01
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There ya go L.L. ton up.



FW I'm intrigued, under what sort of behaviour from your husband would youdraw the line?

MsCurly Posted on 11/4 15:02
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I don't understand why anybody would gloat over being married or settled down?

Are you people serious or are you just saying it for the sake of point scoring banter on here?

Crikey....if that's what makes you happy then that's wonderful, but it's a bit naive to assume that it's everybodies goal in life.

sasboro Posted on 11/4 15:03
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I agree bb75, some of us have to spend our time on the internet to talk to strangers

Mscurly, the cheque is in the post

*waits for bb75's predictable reply*

Lisbonlegend Posted on 11/4 15:03
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And thi stime 75% of the posts weren't mine.

FW_2 Posted on 11/4 15:07
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What is there to be intrigued about? You made a (what I considered quite flippant) comment about marriage and I replied. Then all of a sudden you start talking about domestic violence and now you're intrigued about my marriage?

RaRaRasputin Posted on 11/4 15:09
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Im happy and if I can get a bit of point scoring banter out of it as well, then bonus!

Lisbonlegend Posted on 11/4 15:09
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Curlers, what do you see as your future if it's not to find a man and get married? Will you always be happy to be young, free and single?

boroboy75 Posted on 11/4 15:10
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What predictable reply?
Isn't it nice having chums you can play up for sas.
I bet you wish you'd done it sooner.

sasboro Posted on 11/4 15:12
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i dont play upto anyone, i'm just myself

MsCurly Posted on 11/4 15:13
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I don't know Lisbers, but I'm perfectly happy with my life the way it is now.

It's not broken so I don't plan to fix it.

If things change at some point, then that's fine, but it's safe to assume that being settled down with a partner is not the main aim of every person out there.

jax_1 Posted on 11/4 15:18
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Well surely anyone with an iota of common sense would have understood from my post that women were, in the olden days, forced to stay in marriages no matter what. That is not the case anymore and thats a good thing.
With the disappearance of any stigma being attached to divorce women, no longer have to stay with drunks, wife beaters and the generally useless. ( Obviously, that works both ways but the original question was about women. )

Of course marriage shouldn't be enetered into lightly, however there is more to life than wearing a ring.

I was intrigued to know, since you are so fastidious in your views on marriage, under what circs you would call it a day?

FW_2 Posted on 11/4 15:22
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Oh forget it. It seems like you're spoiling for some kind of argument with me. I do have more than an iota of common sense and I don't have fastidious views on marriage. I find your post incredibly patronising and am obviously not clever enough to reason with yourself.

Lisbonlegend Posted on 11/4 15:26
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I know what you're saying Curlers but like you said, life changes and you never know.

jax_1 Posted on 11/4 15:26
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Scuse me but wasn't it you that called me flippant?
Anyway, if you are happy with the guy you have and being covered in baby sick all well and good but it's not the be all and end all of life, not like it used to be.

I'm in total agreement with Curls, life is there to be lived ( in whatever little niche makes you happy )

Lisbonlegend Posted on 11/4 15:33
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By this thread got a bit frisky didn't it.

I don't see a problem with getting married but it'd have to be someone I was happy with and just a natural progression in the relationship. As much as I want kids I wouldn't have them til I'd lived my own life either and was content to give my all for the little ones.

--- Post edited by Lisbonlegend on 11/4 15:34 ---

bandito Posted on 11/4 15:51
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Sas they are falling at your feet.

"Gagging for it" is the phrase you might be looking for

sasboro Posted on 11/4 15:54
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I reward mscurly and planner well for giving me moral support on here, i just cant handle bb75 and co on my own.

Lisbonlegend Posted on 11/4 15:57
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oral support?

janplanner Posted on 11/4 15:57
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just a smile from you is reward enough, sas.

sasboro Posted on 11/4 16:01
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no, i'm not a dentist lisbon.

janplanner Posted on 11/4 16:02
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that reminds me, when are you getting operated on?

Lisbonlegend Posted on 11/4 16:03
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Brain surgery? That explains the change in moods, it's the drugs.

boroboy75 Posted on 11/4 16:03
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I bet sas can't believe the female attention he now gets on this message board. He's probably sat 'mashing his spuds' as he re-reads their messages to him.

bandito Posted on 11/4 16:03
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sas, after you've had your wisdom teeth out it'll be a good few weeks before you can eat any hairy pie

sasboro Posted on 11/4 16:04
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week on friday! absolutely crapping myself thinking about it.

bb75, i have you to thank. they feel sorry for me cos your always picking on me.

wash your mouth out bandito!

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RaRaRasputin Posted on 11/4 16:06
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Question, is sas's female attention a sympathy vote or because they actually fancy him?
If the former then haha! if the later then respect!

sasboro Posted on 11/4 16:09
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its for sympathy!

Also notice mscurly has lost her glasses recently..that will explain it!

bandito Posted on 11/4 16:10
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I've had wisdom teeth out. It's a hospital job and you'll be eating from a straw for about 3 days. If you've got a female, you can play on it for longer and avoid the hassles of female conversation and routine jobs.

The wisdom of wisdom teeth

Lisbonlegend Posted on 11/4 16:11
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For some reason I feel like 'mashing my spuds'.

WHITEANT Posted on 11/4 16:12
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Women are like gardens THEY NEED A GOOD DIGGIN NOW AND AGAIN ( ONLY KIDDING BEFORE THE POST CHANGES TOPIC)

RaRaRasputin Posted on 11/4 16:14
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A sympathy shag is not to be sneezed at.

sasboro Posted on 11/4 16:15
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not from you i hope?

RaRaRasputin Posted on 11/4 16:16
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No, Im happily married now.

sasboro Posted on 11/4 16:17
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being married shouldnt make any difference

RaRaRasputin Posted on 11/4 16:18
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Youll have to change that attitude if you want to get married.

sasboro Posted on 11/4 16:21
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is that why you got married to stop yourself from being lead astray?

janplanner Posted on 11/4 16:23
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anyway, i hope you don't feel too poorly afterwards.
you'll have the perfect excuse to watch lots of football on tv.

MsCurly Posted on 11/4 16:25
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Did someone say reward? Forget smiles planner, you should have gone for the snog.

Bandy, pies should never be hairy, that's disgusting.

janplanner Posted on 11/4 16:29
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oh curly, you're so base.

sas and i have a purely platonic friendship. it is possible, you know.

boroboy75 Posted on 11/4 16:31
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sas, me picking on you?
You started it yesterday! It was as if you had been ordered to do it as part of your iniation to the 'get along gang'.
They've obviously accepted you, judging by the way Cinderella's sisters are backing you up on this thread.

MsCurly Posted on 11/4 16:33
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Codswollop, I would back you up too, 75.

If you were handsome and twinkly eyed like Sas.

sasboro Posted on 11/4 16:37
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yeah, any excuse to watch boro on tv instead of going to the game. I'll have to get the other 2 taken out to avoid going to the final

and i agree a platonic friendship is possible between men and women, even under the stresses and strains of supporting mfc.

was only joking bb75!didnt mean to hurt your feelings

RaRaRasputin Posted on 11/4 16:38
re: Why women are changing....

The compliments sas is getting of the ladies I suspect are smiliar in nature to the valentines card he got of his mum.

sasboro Posted on 11/4 16:41
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i didnt get any valentines cards this year, told my mum not to bother years ago

RaRaRasputin Posted on 11/4 16:42
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Waste of money anyway mate, sadly the wife doesnt agree.

Lisbonlegend Posted on 11/4 16:46
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I got 2 this year....

RaRaRasputin Posted on 11/4 16:47
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One from mum, one from yourself?

boroboy75 Posted on 11/4 16:49
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Lisbon, the one you got from your bird was probably actually meant for that work-mate of hers who was banging her.

Lisbonlegend Posted on 11/4 16:51
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I meant 2 women, not 2 cards.

RaRaRasputin Posted on 11/4 16:53
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On that imaginary note, Ill bid you good night.

Lisbonlegend Posted on 11/4 16:55
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Goodnight Rara and sweet McClaren dreams.